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Resolved Question: PLS PLS Help just had the most horrible fight [a tad long but i need all the answers I can get]?

My bf&I broke up 2 weeks ago [after nearly 7 months] Pros: loyal, caring, supportive, romantic, had a lot of similar interests, comfortable around each other, never embaressed and could talk about anything! Cons: not very understanding, hes inconsistent about his decisions, jealous [which I talked to him about] obsessive [i again told him to ease up but then he'd be spiteful and go extreme, barely any calling, texting] self conscious, sometimes gives me crap excuses, maturity differences were starting to show [especially around my friends, id feel embaressed even!] he expected me to make the time for him but wouldnt do the same during the summer The honeymoon phase seemed to end at 3 months for me after we had our first battle. After that i kept going through phases of loving him to bits to completely needing a break. We barely spoke during the summer because "he didnt have anything to say" but expected me to make time when he got home and I was still away. After not seeing each other for 3 months he didnt make the effort to look me when I got back blaming it every on his dad [which he admitted later was his fault] We had several fights, a break and then our reunion date had 0 sparks from my side [though Id noticed the butterflies dying a bit before the summer] I started to realize i loved him but wasnt IN adore with him so I broke it off face to face because I didnt want to drag him along. I want him glad but the thought of him moving on still hits me quite a bit. We jumped into the friends thing straight away and I felt so upset and numb for days. But i honestly think I made the right choice breaking up however JUST had the worst battle in the world because i was annoyed that he wasnt understanding whilst i was sick for a week he had a measley lil icy. It stupidly built up to us replaying out the same battle after we broke up [me telling him why but him actually being mad and himself this time instead of calm] Kept saying i could never have cared, that I f-upped his 6 months, that he didnt give an f about me, that i wasnt the same person, that he never was going to talk to me again...breaking his promise of friendship. 5 minutes later he was every calm, saying he regretted swearing but "people say f when they're pissed eh?" &wants to talk about it face to face I feel completely shocked&in so much pain, cant find a way to describe this. I never thought he'd be so petty and walk away after a crappy 2 weeks [yes I may have been confused about whether I made the right choice and dragged him a long for the first week but his fault being that he could change my mind but when it wasnt working, put no effort in, in the wish that id run back]

9 Oct 2009, 9:52 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: How long will it take?

I have been seeing psychiatrists and been on medication for the past 12 years now. Im only 22!! 2 years ago i was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder along with a few other things. I thought i was dealing with it well! I could of been better but i was managing to receive along!! 4 months ago i decided to give up smoking which i have done succesfully! But since then i have hit rock bottom....for the first 3 months i was suffering with severe panic attacks,extreme anxiety,i couldn't snooze..i couldn't even receive out of bed. I was to scared to go outside... I was living in complete fear. Over teh past 3 weeks i have managed to slowley receive it together.. I am eating better, going out more.... But inside i am a complete mess... My body is so tense,as is my jaw, i am paranoid constant....my heart it racing.... i just want to lie down and go to snooze. I just dont understand what it is and why its happening to me. I have always been an anxious person... But this is to the extreme. I recently got married this year and have not been able to like it due to this. Our honeymoon got cancelled as i was to scared to travel,we cant go out.. I hate even getting romantic as im just to paranoid. Im hoping maybe someone could give me advice if you have been through it or going through it. I am also intrested in theraputic/herbal or natural ideas. To be honest im getting real fed up with the medication! Advice would be very appreciated. xxxx vaughn favrua how can you help?

9 Oct 2008, 12:09 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Is this a reasonable thing to think? (sorry for the length, it is needed as you will see)?

That men in this world are getting the short end of the stick and don't even know it? Feminists have become so successful in their arguments that they have brainwashed themselves, and more importantly us, into thinking they have solid grounds to stand on when still fighting for MORE equality. Lets look at the most important example of women wanting more than equality, marriage. If a man does not marry a lady he is either a useless slob who cannot support himself or anyone else or he is a chauvinistic pig who is just using women for their private parts. If a lady does not receive married she is deemed by society to be a difficult worker, independent, and has a good head on her shoulders. A man must buy a lady an extremely over priced wedding ring (as much as a down payment on a home), pay for a wedding that the bride declares as "her day" and wont settle for anything less than the best, and pay for a honeymoon to some five star hotel in a tropical paradise. What does the lady purchase for the man? Nothing. If a man asked for a week long fishing trip or a new entertainment middle, he would be a sexist pig. Let continue on the marriage topic for a bit more. When a man marries a lady, every debt is combined. More men than women have investment portfolios established, have a strict budget, are either debt free or paying off their debt. Yet when married, the man assumes his burden and now is responsible for the lady's burden as well. If he refuses to pay her portion, he can face legal action, refuses to marry a lady with extreme debt, he is seen as an unfit husband who cannot provide. When kids arrive along, most of the time the lady stays at home to watch for the kids while the husband continues his career to support everyone. This is acceptable until the kids start school where the wife now has from 8-3 everyday to leisurely spend her days. She will not go back to work because the man is now making enough to support the entire family. If the difficult working husband asks in return for her to clean the home, do laundry, cook dinner, ETC. he is an abusive sexist pig. Affairs happen every the time, both initiated by women and men. If a man has an affair he is seen as a low life scum-bag who can only "think with his little head". If a lady has an affair her female friends automatically pin the blame on the husband by saying he either was not satisfying her in bed, was not listening to her bitch and moan about ridiculous stuff enough, or was not emotionally available after working his back breaking 13 hour work days to provide for her. Thank god the lady was available to keep the sofa warm every day and make sure no one stole the TV. A lady can hold sex from a man forever if she so desired, but if a man asked for her to hold up her end of the marriage vows by providing, he can be hauled away for dometic abuse, sexual abuse, or even rape (just by mentioning the idea). Now lets move on to an inevitable divorce (which is at a 50% rate, 85% being initiated by the lady). If the man was nice enough to spoil his wife by buying her objects and taking her on vacations he is now obligated to provide for these luxuries while she is off screwing someone else, yet it would be ridiculous to have her continually cook him dinners because that is the lifestyle he has become accustomed to or to provide conjugal visits. Women have fought so difficult for equal rights that they have exceeded the 50% limit. The look saw is now tipped in their favor and it seems like no one notices or is too afraid to do something about it. If women want equal rights then they will have to have equal rights for everything, good and bad.

9 Mar 2011, 11:03 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: I'm interested in taking a cruise for my honeymoon....?

...What are the best dates to cruise to tropical locations? What tropical locations would you recommend? Do you have a favorite cruise line for young couples who are fairly active? We don't need Extreme Deadly Cruise Challenge though ;) just some fun activities. Is there a minimum cruise length to really receive your money's worth without feeling rushed? Anything we should know as first-time cruisers?

7 Mar 2011, 11:03 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: most gorgeous places to travel?

Please don't say hawaii, i know it is beautiful but i am looking for something with extreme, though natural beauty and a with special rarity to it. This is for my elopement location and also a honeymoon location. My fiance and i have never left the country, can you help us think of the perfect location to travel? Maybe even a place where we could visit something totally chilly... like a castle, or the rock hedges or something really awesome. Your help means A LOT. We are trying to do this in April. yes, we adore beaches. we ove nature and hiking in general. im not worried about a budget

7 Aug 2009, 4:19 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Anxiety, slowed thinking, and constant pressure in my forehead. Diagnosis?

I'm going to make this as detailed as possible. About a year ago, I was a completely normal fellow with no issues taking charge, talking to people, thinking and conversing about the most complex topics. I was also weightlifting and working out 4 days a week and through someones advise I began to drink a supplement known as No-Xplode. Initially I felt euphoric taking this substance and dropped my daily coffee and energy drink intakes in favor of it. Yes I was drinking No-Xplode every single day for about a month and a half. After this "honeymoon" phase I had a couple of instances of heavy palpitations, extreme difficulty breathing, and this weird sensation of hearing my heart beat inside of my brain (especially after a workout), sufficed to say I ceased regular intakes after a couple of these attacks. One day however, I had developed a icy and felt extremely sleepy, too sleepy to go to college, so I decided to take No-Xplode one more time in order to receive that energized feeling I need to receive through the day, as long as i didn't work out, I thought I would be safe. Lo and behold, half way into the train ride towards college, I have my first and most severe panic attack. I felt my entire body beating as if it were one organ, breathing seemed to be impossible, and immanent death and dread was on my mind. In the aftermath of this event in which I still suffer, I have had a plethora of health problems such as extreme fatigue, constant nervousness, anxiety, unstable blood pressure, elevated body temperature, complete intolerance to sugar and caffeine ( I mean it, one cup of coffee and I'll receive a minor panic attack in less then an hour), chest pain, feelings of inadequacy and failure, chronic dry throat and mouth, chronic feelings of dehydration, constant pressure in my head, and an inability to think the way I used to. Although most of these symptoms have arrive and gone in the past 8-9 months, the 3 symptoms that stay with me are anxiety, pressure in my forehead, and inability/fear of sophisticated and quick thought. I have gone to a cardiologist, endocrinologist, gastroenterologist, and the emergency room a couple of times. What I have found out so far is that I am perfectly healthy in most cases, my heart is in good condition, my liver is in good condition, my glands are in good condition (he was a little concerned about the thyroid which went from a tsh level of 2.25 to 3.01 but he says I have no antibodies and that 3.01 is still considered normal) so my numerous visits to the doctors have largely been a waste. In order to try to cure my self I have taken b-stress vitamins but they actually increase my stress and anxiety instead of decreasing it, taking thyroid supplements also increases my anxiety and body heat, kava kava is largely ineffective in dealing with my anxiety, and buspar made me anxious as hell and heavily depressed as well.And so many month's have passed and I still feel these symptoms and they are fatally impeding my academic and professional life, I am making a final plea here on Yahoo answers, can anyone here make sense of this monstrosity? is there a viable cure to this or am I never going to recover and be my old self again?

6 Sep 2010, 7:40 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Answers, please? Fiance and I debating honeymoon? Just one small problem...?

Ok, well, my fiance Gabe, who's 27, and I (I'm 24) are getting married soon, and we're planning our honeymoon... We were thinking either the Caribbean, or France. I talk fluent French (I've studied it in school and on my possess since 15 in order to talk to my French relatives,) so we wouldn't have a problem if that came up. I've never been to France although I'd adore to; I'm just not sure I'd want to go for our honeymoon. I laways thought it would be somewhere warm and tropical. Gabe thinks we should go to France though, since he knows how much I adore it. However, there's one thing bothering me... Gabe thinks it's an extreme turn-on when I talk French... and this is nice of stupid, but I'm nice of worried I'll feel jealous if there's other girls talking French and he thinks it's really hot... he's not a pig or anything in any way, and I know, obviously, he loves and cares about me much more than any French girl... but... I'm just worried I'd feel jealous... What do you think? Opinions? Am I being ridiculous thinking this?? What should I do?

6 Sep 2009, 10:46 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Fiance and I debating honeymoon, but I feel like...?

6 Sep 2009, 10:32 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Can someone explain how to go about buying your first house?

Me and my husband got married 2 years ago and since he's in the military, we have yet to have & do every the "normal" married couple things (like a honeymoon, anniversary, buying a home, etc)... I'm 20 & he's 21 so we're fairly new to the adult stuff. lol... In short, how do we go about buying our first home? I dont need extreme detail or anything, but i think i've found a home that i really want to take a look at & make an offer on, and i would like to know whats next (tax credit, down payment, bank loans, realtors, etc) And if it helps, we use Navy Federal & USAA. Okay, im not usually a b*tch on Y!A but to the 3rd commenter, NO DUH... And not that its any of your business, but he is stationed in a different state than i live in right now and we have agreed that when he gets out of the military in 8 months, we want to live where i'm at... So buying a home is the next natural step since i know its going to take while & i dont want to rush it.... We're young, not stupid. Thanks

6 Jun 2010, 1:35 pm | click here to view more

Voting Question: What are the chances that I could be pregnant?

Well, silly question, I had sex... of course I could be pregnant. But what are my chances? I intend to receive a pregnancy test in the morning, but I just can't snooze! I am 22 years old. I just got married, but on my wedding night I realized that with every the wedding stress, I forgot to take my Depo shot. So I went ahead and had sex and took Plan B the next morning. I had my Depo shot that same day and went on my honeymoon. It has been 6 weeks since the wedding and I am starting to experience extreme fatigue and nausea. What are the chances that I could be pregnant? Likely or unlikely? I haven't had my period, but I usually don't have my period while on the shot, so that doesn't mean much. Thanks. Also, I have been having odd sharp pains and an odd (difficult to describe) feeling in my abdomen. When I used to have a period, I never, never had cramps.

6 Jul 2010, 2:10 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: I am just so confused right now?

I'll try to make this as short as possible with the essential details. We are both 16 years old. There's this guy named Will that I've been friends with every my life. We are the closest friends as can be for 9 years now. Around 2 years ago, he revealed that he was bisexual and started dating guys. Around 3 months ago, we were playing tennis (shirtless) and when we crossed courts, I swear, he came close to me and I think he tried to kiss me. I smoothly got out of the situation by claiming that there was a bobcat behind him. -.- I acted that I didn't think that he was coming onto me and it worked. Now, Will has broken up with his girlfriend and whenever he does this, he becomes a huge rebound guy and will settle with whoever there is around him. The huge problem is that I nice of have a secret crush on him. However, I do like girls, but he's the only, I repeat, only guy that I want to have $ex with. I mean that, because I looked at other guys that are viewed as attractive and I felt nothing. So I'm still confused with that. I don't want to be his boyfriend because I think that liking him is just a phase for now and that I'll eventually receive over him and men. Plus, I just want to keep it a friendship between me and him. The EXTREME problem is that tomorrow, he will be staying in my room tomorrow. His parents are refurnishing his home so he has to stay in either his backyard or in my place for the whole weekend.. As his pal, I couldn't refuse because I'm alone in my brother's apartment for the weekend also! I'll explain, my parents are in their honeymoon, and they wanted the home for themselves <.<. So now, I share a room with my brother for the weekend. He has a one bedroom apartment and he's on a business meeting for 4 days. If he sleeps in my room, I'm afraid he will either try to make a move on me, or I will try to make a move on him. By the way, there's 2 beds in the bedroom of the apartment, and he sleeps in boxers. I know because we had a sleepover when he wasn't desperate for adore. Now, he is desperate because he had a one-night stand with someone he didn't know when the last girl dumped him. So what should I do? How should I reduce my temptation? How can I cease his temptation? Thanks for reading! I cannot just flat out tell him that I don't want to have a sexual relationship with him, even if I do want to. I know that the people that have said the words: "We need to talk" were the ones that he has never talked to again and have felt uncomfortable with them. I don't know how this happens, but I just cannot simply tell him. I need a plan.

6 Aug 2009, 9:08 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Did i do the right thing? [A bit long but I need all the answers I can get pls pls pls]?

My ex and I just broke up last weekend, we'd known each other since January&had been dating nearly 7 months [hes 16 and im 18...yes i sound like a craddle snatcher i know] Pros: loyal, caring, supportive, romantic, had a lot of similar interests, comfortable around each other, never embaressed and could talk about anything! Cons: not very understanding, jealous [which I talked to him about] obsessive [i again told him to ease up but then he'd be spiteful and go extreme, barely any calling, texting] self conscious, sometimes gives me crap excuses, maturity differences were starting to show [especially around my friends, id feel embaressed even!] he expected me to make the time for him but wouldnt do the same during the summer The honeymoon phase seemed to end at 3 months for me after we had our first battle. After that i kept going through phases of loving him to bits to completely needing a break. We barely spoke during the summer because "he didnt have anything to say" but expected me to make time when he got home and I was still away. After not seeing each other for 3 months he didnt make the effort to look me when I got back blaming it every on his dad [which he admitted later was his fault] We had several fights, a break and then our reunion date had 0 sparks from my side [though Id noticed the butterflies dying a bit before the summer] I started to realize i loved him but wasnt IN adore with him so I broke it off face to face because I didnt want to drag him along. I want him glad but the thought of him moving on still hits me quite a bit. We jumped into the friends thing straight away and I felt so upset and numb for days but not sure if it was the thought that i was single again [not that im dependable on people just that I guess i really liked the loving relationship] or because id made the wrong choice? He swaps between trying to be friends and changing my mind subtly but I always believed that once a relationship didnt work the first time dont recycle it. What do you guys think :/ No rude comments pls Thanks in advance

5 Oct 2009, 2:54 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: What is or better put in the following passage?

However, after a while, usually two or three days, the "honeymoon" ends and the behavior moves back in the direction of baseline. We call this regression to baseline. It does this for at least two reasons. The first is that parents receive careless and are sloppy in their management of the treatment. They become inconsistent, or they give in, or they slip back into their old habits of being punitive, coercive, and negative. When this occurs, the behavior will most certainly regress to its earlier level of inappropriateness. Second, as the novelty effect wears off and kids tire of this "game" their parents are playing, they will challenge the system by going to extreme measures to receive their way; or better put, to receive the reinforcer (sick as they were!) that were available to them in such abundance before treatment was put into effect, and which maintained behavior at the baseline level. They are still below what we call the reinforcement control of their old ways of behaving (that is, during baseline), and since that is where every of the reinforcer's have been in the past, and since past behavior is the best predictor of future behavior, that is the direction in which the behavior will go; it will regress. As I noted earlier, in scientific terms it is called regression to baseline. it talks about parenting strategies... it doesn't talk about honey moon. it talks about a strategy using in teaching kids. and in the outset, it works and then, the effect is worn off. and then , it discussed why it is worn off.. I would like to know the meaning of better put here.

30 May 2010, 10:58 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: How long does it take for a type I diabetic to go into ketoacidosis without insulin?

I was diagnosed as a diabetic type I at age 18, almost 3 years ago. They said they caught it in the honeymoon stage so I never got so far as DKA. But I was wondering how long it usually takes for a type I diabetic to receive to DKA? I'm beginning to think maybe I have type II? I just recently realized that I haven't taken any insulin in almost 3 months (since my best friends funeral). Yet I'm fine. I don't take my blood sugar often, but when I do it always over 300, often over 500. I haven't had any nausea or vomiting. Yeah, I pee a lot and I've got some opportunistic infections, but no nausea or vomiting. No extreme weight loss and my appetite is insatiable. I'm not trying to receive to DKA. I haven't been taking care of myself, but I also wasn't trying to consciously hurt myself. But when I realized how long it has been since I've injected myself I became curious as to why I haven't had.more consequences?

30 Apr 2011, 1:12 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: How can they make Breaking Dawn into two films?

Breaking Dawn was a long novel because of the extreme amount of visual detail and monologue...but when you think about, there isn't much content - there's the honeymoon, the pregnancy, turning into a vampire, and the final battle. I just don't look how they can possibly stretch that into two films!

3 Jul 2010, 7:27 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: 2 months of Marriage - Greedy Inlaws - He married me for money?

I got married 2 months ago. Completely arranged Indian marriage. I have been an NRI girl every my life and my hubby has lived in India every his life with few years abroad on work. Stayed at in-laws only for 2 weeks after marriage due to work commitments. From day two my in-laws esp. FIL made comments about me being ‘fat’ I ignored every that , got back to my place of work and it’s been a different learning phase for me and hubby. I always wondered how our marriage happened considering we were extremes. We had no courting period, but trusting Gods plans and my parent’s choice, I was trying to make it work me and hubby. Though I realised we were extremes, I figured that we were able to make it work if we wanted to. My hubby works in another country, he decided to spend few months with me and would relocate if he found a job here as well.. My in-laws always called hubby only when I was not around and though I wish he’d include me in every talks as I do with my parents, it didn’t happen. But from friends who have been married, I figured these habits will eventually change and he would include me as a part of his family. My husband is usually at home or out with his siblings who live in the same country. He decided to spend couple of days at a different state with his brothers and left me on my possess. Though these things do seem sensitive I am careful not to voice it for the fear of having fights throughout our honeymoon period. My husband got called for an interview and in his absence he asked me to receive documents from his difficult drives to email his prospective employer. I opened the folder as per his instruction and retrieved the file that was named below his certificates. To my alarm it was a letter from his dad I saw my name and couldn’t help but read it. It was a series of letters his dad wrote to him to convince him to marry me as I was a good catch! It went to do describe the financial benefits of marrying me. I must also add that after my marriage my dad had gifted me money and it was deposited in both my and hubbys name, to my shock I discovered that every of it was withdrawn by his dad.I am usually a person who likes to confront issues then and there, but this letter together with this money being withdrawn has frozen my emotions and I am not sure if I should confront my hubby if he married me out of his will or if he was with me cos I was wealthy. I do not know if I should inform my parents about this..This is affecting me and my work to no end. I haven’t been to work since discovering this and I feel my marriage is over..What advices would you guys have to offer me? FIL took away my hubbys ATM card and I didnt even know..

29 Oct 2010, 4:27 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: I'm pregnant but worried to tell my husband, how do I tell him?

We've been married six months. We were going to start trying to a baby as soon as we got married but we decided to wait after we cancelled our honeymoon after I was too sick to go, we wanted to wait until I got to my minimum weight. In the run up I'd lost too much weight, I fainted a couple days before the wedding too. I'm still pretty underweight, I've only gained 9 pounds or so since the wedding. I still had 15 pounds more to gain until I reached the goal my doctor set. I still struggle with gaining weight, that's why it has taken so long just to gain 9 pounds. I'm worried being pregnant is going to make it worse, I am a little worried about how extreme I might go to avoid gaining any weight. I fainted before my wedding because I was accident dieting and taking diet pills, not thinking what it could do to me. He worries a lot about me because I struggle with my weight and eating enough and not exercising so much. Now I'm worried to tell him I'm pregnant because of how much he worries about me. How do I tell him without making him worry more?

29 Nov 2011, 5:15 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Honeymoon at Ladera St. Lucia?

My fiance and I have taken an extreme interest in making Ladera Resort in St. Lucia our honeymoon destination. The location, price and idea of no fourth wall is very intriguing. While about 96% of the reviews are excellent I am worried about the other 4% that say how absolutely terrible it was. Is it worth listening to that 4% or just brush it off as a somewhat random experience?

29 Jul 2011, 12:29 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: I've been married 3 months and my wife started holding out on sex the last two weeks?

She came up with the idea that we should both wear a pair of pantyhose while we have sex. She says she will not do it any other way until I agree but I am pretty reluctant. It seems pretty weird and I'm not comfortable with the idea. If she had a kinky thing like this I think she should have said something before we got married. We are practically still on our honeymoon and I don't want to lose my wife but she won't compromise and I really want to make my wife glad but not at the cost of my manhood. It worries me because I think she might want to do even more extreme things and this could just be the beginning of a whole disturbing trend based on other things she has hinted at from time to time. Stressed. The whole idea does not turn me on at every , it is actually just the opposite. wearing any nice of underwear during sex is not my thing!

28 Dec 2010, 1:18 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Any medical facilities or pharmacies to go to in Playa Del Carmen in case of injury?

We are going to Playa Del Carmen for our honeymoon in a week, and my fiance recently injured his back. He is feeling better at the moment, but I am so worried something will happen while we are on our honeymoon, cause the smallest thing will put him back into extreme pain. If this was to happen can you receive medical care down there? I have also heard you may be able to receive pain meds otc or easily receive a rx for them in mexico as long as you don't take them back into the US, is this true? He doesn't like to take pain meds that often, but this is our honeymoon and I don't want him to be miserable.

26 Oct 2009, 11:49 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: In your personal experience, what were the earliest symptoms you experienced when pregnant?

My fiance and I are getting married in a few months, but we want to start TTY as soon as possible. We know it can take on average up to 6 months - 1 year, but we're thinking we want to start trying a few weeks before the wedding (because how amazing would it be to find out on our wedding day that we're expecting!!) My concerns are related to: how quickly do symptoms start? We're going on our honeymoon right afterwards and I don't want to be nauseaus the entire time, but is this generally a problem "right away" ? I *know* that it's different for everyone, which is why I'm interested in your personal opinion: What were the very first symptoms you noticed, and how quickly before/after your expected period did you notice them? For example, a pal of mine gets heartburn whenever she's pregnant... another one had symptoms literally 1 - 2 weeks after conception (skin sensitivity and extreme tiredness). Your experiences would be greatly appreciated!!

26 Apr 2010, 3:44 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Um.... let's all marry anime characters!!!! :D?

noooo.... =__= okies I just heard the weirdest story, well I know we every sometimes state that we adore anime characters and their so hot etc, It's every good fun... but still I don't think people would take it to the extreme would they?? I mean would you?? O__o like this guy from Japan... he OFFICIALLY married a videogame character..... called nene http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hsikPswAYUM I mean for one...okay answer these next questions if ya want!! 1. do you think their marriage will last?? 2. was this just a publicity stunt? 3. going with its not, how do you think the honeymoon will go? :P 4. What about kids?? O__o

25 Nov 2009, 2:04 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Which 2 Hawaiian Islands to visit? My honeymoon is exactly 1 year from today.?

I will be 25 and my fiance' will be 32, we very much want to relax but still like a party night. We want to spend 11 days and 11 nights split on two islands. We are looking for seclusion more toward the start of the trip, but beauty always, some night life when we pick, but do not want anything too touristy. We are not too big on history or extreme botanical sights (more like every around basic beauty but don't want to focus every day on it). Musts though are horseback riding on the beach, a helicopter ride, snorkeling, would like to look some dolphins, wind surfing, fishing, look a volcano, swim by a waterfall, and go to a luau. And at least on one of the islands we would like to stay in an ocean front room (most likely during the seclusion time). We are arriving the 25th of June and leaving the 6th of July, we will be on an island for 4th of July! Any suggestions on which two islands to go to? And how many days at either would you suggest being there? By the way, we are definitely not hikers or bikers, lol I should also say we live in a tiny town and are not city type folks, so when I say horseback riding we are thinking of doing it two days one on each different island. But still would like the luxury of a ritzy dinner at least one night there to receive every dazzled up lol.

25 Jun 2011, 9:37 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: My husband & I want to take a belated honeymoon somewhere within 3/4 hours flight time from Atlanta, GA.?

We ideally would like a beach destination with things to do, but want to avoid the extreme summer temperatures if at every possible. (That might be next to impossible this time of year!) Many thanks in advance for your input!

25 Jun 2011, 10:58 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: how to make the spark come back?

my boyfriend just broke it off yesterday. right now, I'm going through the classic depression, feeling like my life is over etc, but I know I'm being over dramatic and I'll repair eventually. we're absolute best friends. when our relationship first started, he was so nervous because of that. but the thing I don't receive it....I just went to Jamaica. like, last week. I came back, and things were amazing!I felt like we were back to the very beginning, like the honeymoon days of our relationship again. everybody was telling me he couldn't function without me, and he was being completely loveydovey. I was feeling like we were going so strong!then...well, we made a mistake. we're both virgins and we both want to wait until marriage. but we went a bit farther than we've ever gone (not sex). I didn't really want it, but he was sort of being pushy, in a moment of extreme hotsy temptation, and fear of losing him eventually for being too prude (which I realize now was extremely stupid. if you have to be afraid to lose somebody if you don't do something your not comfortable with, you might just lose them anyway). but he felt so guilty after.....and started saying (within ONE day). "I just can't feel the same", "I'm sorry, I just can't touch you anymore". I sort of freaked out on him like..what the heck....and eventually, he broke it off. he feels really bad now, and keeps trying to talk to me,saying he still loves me as his best pal and every this crap but....but look, I just don't receive how ....I mean I guess I thought we were alot harder to break off. and now...I mean, is it possible to receive him back?is it possible to put some spark back into it? this guy focuses completely on his feelings, and thats very difficult sometimes. I don't think as much, I kinda just be, and be glad. even when I was in a span of time when I didn't really feel in adore with him...I wasn't really bothered by it at every because I know the "in adore" feeling can turn off and on off and on, as long as you keep being faithful to each other.

25 Jan 2012, 8:40 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: Should I be as worried as I am?

This is nice of long and I apologize. I just want to take sure anyone who reads this fully can receive the whole point before answering. :/ Alright. So my boyfriend of nearly 5 years and I broke up a few months back for about 6ish months. He left me for some random chick on the computer who was in a different country. Anyways, I was really torn up over it since he is my first real adore and he stepped every over me by doing something so stupid as to leave me for someone he's never even met. ANYWAYS. We eventually got back together after the 6ish months. He said he had time to grow up (as did I) and he admitted that what he did was stupid and a mistake. Things were going very well for a months or so (honeymoon phase I'm sure) but now he's talking to this new girl online. look, he plays a lot of those online video games and he met her on one (Just like the other chick). Now they talk nonstop, even when I arrive over to visit him. We could be cuddling or something and the second he hears a Ba-Donk! from the messenger he says he's restless or he doesn't want to lay down anymore just so he can go talk to her. He's been doing this now nonstop for about 3 months. They battle every the time like a damn married couple (Apparently, she's bipolar and feels emotions to the extreme. She either loves someone or hates them. Bull spit in my opinion.) and he always gets pissy and irritated because they've had a little online spat over stupid sh!t. Then he takes out his anger on me by ignoring me and drowning himself in video games or getting short with me for no reason. So naturally, I'm starting to tug away from him. Every time I arrive over he's sitting on that computer talking to her. And he NEVER talks that much when I'm at home and on messenger. Only her. So I've taken to teasing him and saying when the messenger calls, "Your wife is summoning you." Mostly playful. Mostly. Now we're having problems with our sex life. Suddenly he has next to no libido and won't even let ME touch him. And when I do, he gets off, cuddles for 5 minutes then back on the computer. We have managed to have sex a few times, but he finishes too early and I receive nowhere close orgasm. He never used to do that. So he finishes me with his hands or whichever but it's not the same. I haven't actually had a orgasm during actual sex since Halloween. Now I'm feeling sexually frustrated with him. But anyways. Back to the point. The last two times I've visited (Usually for the weekend) I have left early early Monday morning because he has hurt me so much with his spending of more time with someone who isn't even here than with me. I left his home today because he messed up his sleeping cycle and I found that he wasn't in bed at 9 am. He stayed up most of the night playing games with HER, then, had an argument and sat there arguing with HER for 2 and a half hours. I felt like sh!t. Seems the only time I ever receive to cuddle or even be close to him is when he's sleeping. Now I don't even have that. I say I'm going out to sit outside because my "Heart hurts" which actually means he's hurting me so much I think I can actually FEEL my heart breaking. I'll wait outside in the icy for a half hour waiting for him to show some adore and arrive and receive me because I've been out so long or arrive look if I'm okay. Nothing. -Sigh-... So my question is, am I in the wrong to feel threatened by this new girl now? Seeing as he left me once before for someone he didn't even know, should I feel this way? Am I just being paranoid? And perhaps, how could I handle this situation? Thank you to anyone who bothered to read this whole thing, you have no idea how much your advice means to me. Thank you very much! =)

23 Nov 2010, 10:23 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: How to handle tricky In-laws?

Hi Everyone I am writing my family problem first time ever on any forum and it can sound quite similar but I need serious advise. Please take out few minutes and read it and answer if you have something potential in your mind. Me & my husband got married almost an year back. We had a adore marriage as in you can say adore at first sight during a travel. We liked each other and he proposed me there and then, somehow I was so convinced and we exchanged rings in months time. Our marriage was fixed after 6 months and i moved in his place as he stays in some other state alone, his parents live at native place. We spent 6 months of courtship and got married. No major issues in between rather he is a very caring and loving person. I am also a very sensitive person by nature but yes not a dumb. every in every we were glad couple. Now there are few things to be understood before i mention the actual issue 1. He is only kid of his parents & they are obsessed with him(please take it literally i mean it, as they can's share him) 2. He is 5 years elder to me 3. We belong to same religion and state but still different cultural background 4. I arrive from defense back ground family and city groomed girl and his parents as quite orthodox Now the problem started the day i landed my in law's place after marriage. My mom in law (MIL) started cursing my parents and started crying and lot of unnecessary issues created. I couldn't understand what's happening and why because she used to be very loving and mature before marriage. She even screwed our honeymoon and called us back in one day and my visit to my parents home by making so many calls and we had to arrive back in couple of hours. Finally. after every this me & husband went to our home in city were we work. Now scenario started being dramatic she started crying daily on phone and my husband & her used to be on phone always. Then i asked my husband lets call your parents here for sometime as they are missing you terribly. It was biggest mistake i ever did. They came there by saying for month or two and never went back. There has constant issues, sarcasm, humiliation & scenes created to make me feel embarrassed & curse my parents. Surprisingly my husband either avoids the situation or start taking his parents side. Issues can start from my job, to my salary, my friends, character and so onnnnnn... Last month my husband got transfer we have shifted to New York, they could not join us as company didn't sponsor them. I thought things would be better but still my mom keep eating my husbands ear and finding reasons to create misunderstanding between us. Lately she was convincing him to leave me and every bullshit. Now the problem is even if i keep quite every second day their is some issue she breeds. After i reacted in previous few days which i never did earlier my husband st-oped asking me explanations but environment at home is still not Very warm. We are herein NY for another couple of years, hopefully my in laws are not expected here soon. I seriously want to help improve this how? Or should i take separate way with my husband and tell him I can't adjust with them. Please suggest before some extreme situation occurs. Thanksx

23 Jul 2010, 8:41 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: The Biggest Wedding? What do I not know? EDIT!?

I copy pasted the following text from a previous question of mine because of negative answers regarding financial issues. Before you tell me to "downsize my plans", hear me out: I am NOT getting married =) I'm just a wedding enthusiast as you might say =) I just want to know if I'm missing anything here! What have you guys heard of/taken part of? I have been studying weddings from every over the world for example Chinese and Indian weddings and I just adore this stuff! The thing is, there are so many things you can read about traditions from other civilitations, but there is never a "complete list" of the american wedding. So, I will ask again, purely for research and entertainment purposes, indulge me please: In the most extreme weddings, what "other" events are there except for the big day itself? I have seen so many different versions of these but nobody seems to do every of them. If you were to toss every of these "extra" events in, what are they and in what order would you have them? Examples of extra events I've seen: Bridal Shower Bachelorette party bachelor party spa day for girls golf outing for nearest families dress/tux fittings some sort of outing for groom & groomsmen for example paintball rehearsal dinner brunch the day before or after wedding engagement party cocktail party/dinner/lunch for nearest families sometime before wedding brunch or something after couple comes home from honeymoon "welcome ceremonies" for out-of-state relatives I´m pretty sure I´m forgetting something I've arrive across. But if you were to go every out, and have every the extras, what would your list look like? What events am I forgetting or don´t know about?

23 Aug 2009, 9:14 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Any of these hard rock bands / artists make any famous "well known" mainstream music?

I know there are a lot of people who would say a lot of these bands are good but what im looking for is someone to tell me which bands have made famous songs that are well known or one hit wonders. Just name the band. You don't have to name the tune. Thank you everybody. · Damn Yankees · Daniel Lioneye · Danger Danger · Dangerous Toys · Danzig · Dark New Day · The Darkness · Deadsy · Deep Purple · Derek and the Dominos · Rick Derringer · Divlje Jagode · Dokken · Dr. Sin · doin' your mom · Earshot · Easy Action · Edgar Winter Group · Elf · Europe · Evans Blue · Eleven · Extreme · Exxótica · Faces · Foghat · Lita Ford · Foreigner · Free · Ace Frehley/Frehley's Comet · Funeral of wish · Gamma · The Georgia Satellites · Giant · Gillan · Girlschool · Giuffria · Golden Earring · Gorky Park · Grand Funk Railroad · Great White · Griva · Gotthard · Gun · The Glitterati · Sammy Hagar · Halestorm · Hanoi Rocks · Hardline · Hear 'n Aid · Heart · Helix · Honeymoon Suite · Hollywood Rose · Humble Pie · Jackyl · Jackviper · James Gang · Janis Joplin · The Jeff Beck Group · Jet · Jethro Tull · Joan Jett & the Blackhearts · Jozlin Bones · Kabát · Kerber · King's X · Kingdom arrive · The Kinks · Kix · Krokus · L.A. Guns · La Renga · Leatherwolf · Lordi · Loudness · Loverboy · Mahogany Rush · Marshall Tucker Band · MC5 · Michael Schenker Group · Molly Hatchet · Monster Magnet · Montrose · Gary Moore · Mott the Hoople · Mountain · Mr. Big · Nashville Pussy · Nazareth · Nelson · Night Ranger · Ted Nugent · Oficina G3 (early) · Osmi Putnik · The Parlor Mob · Pink Cream 69 · Plan Nine · Poison · Pretty Boy Floyd · Pride Tiger · Raging Slab · Rainbow · Ram Jam · Ratt · Raven · Red Rider · Rentrer en Soi · REO Speedwagon · Reuben · Rhino pail · Riblja Čorba · Ribozyme · Riot · The Rollins Band · Rose Tattoo · Rough Cutt · Rush · Samson · Scorpions · Sensational Alex Harvey Band · Shakra · Sheriff · Shinedown · Siam Shade · Skid Row · Slade · Slash's Snakepit · Billy Squier · Status Quo · Steeler · Steel Panther · Steppenwolf · Steve Miller Band · rock Sour · Stryper · Styx · Submersed · Survivor · Sweet · T.Rex · Tesla · Theory of a Deadman · Thin Lizzy · Thousand Foot Krutch · George Thorogood & the Destroyers · Thunder · TNT · Tokyo Blade · La Trampa · Triumph · Trooper · Trust · The Tubes · Turbonegro · Trapeze · Trixter · Tygers of Pan Tang · UFO · Union · Uriah Heep · Steve Vai · Vandenberg · Vanilla Ninja · Vixen · Vow Wow · W.A.S.P. · Joe Walsh · Warlock · Wet Willie · White Lion · Whitesnake · Wolfmother · Wolfsbane · Y&T · The Yardbirds · Neil Young · Frank Zappa & the Mothers of Invention [4] · ZZ Top

22 Feb 2010, 2:53 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Is Canadian wheat different than wheat grown in the States?

I lived in Florida but my mom brought home some buckwheat pancake mix from Canada. After eating them, I had a terrible reaction and had to go to the hospital. A few weeks later, I went to Canada on my honeymoon and had a wheat cracker and had a much more mild reaction, but still had to take Benadryl and snooze the whole day. Now, 6 years later, I have moved to Canada for my husbands job and am struggling with very, itchy skin, big patches of dryness that ends in bleeding on my hands. My face has raised itchy parts every over it and I feel so miserable. My face and ears are always very hot and I am finally going to the Doctor this week. I moved here from Florida, so it can be the extreme weather changes or I am wondering if it is a food allergy. Anyone relate??

21 Dec 2010, 2:54 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Could I really have Type 1 Diabetes?

About 3 weeks ago, I went to my primary doctor because I had what I believed to be a sinus infection, my heart beat was also pretty quick, as well as my respiratory rate. When I got there, they did my vitals, and said my heart beat was 150. They checked my lungs and said I sounded a little stuffy, and that I needed to have x-rays done. Before I went downstairs, my doctor decided to take my blood sugar, which at the time, was 112 (keep in mind I was sick, which raises blood sugar levels at times.) I went downstairs, where I found that I couldn't manage to breathe anymore. I went back up stairs, where they rushed me to the emergency room. By the time I got settled in and the nurses checked my blood sugar again, it was 409. At 1:30pm, I was 112, not a diabetic; at 4pm, I was 409, and a diabetic. I hadn't eaten or drank anything between 1pm and 4pm and I had been walking from the x-ray room back to my primary's office. I asked the nurses/doctors why that was, and they had absolutely no answer/reason for how it happened. They simply told me that I was a Type 1 Diabetic (the first time I was ever diagnosed) and left the room. They transported me to another hospital, where I met with an endocrinologist who believed I had diabetes for months as of then. The thing was, I had absolutely no symptoms once so ever, no extreme thirst, or constant need to go to the bathroom. I had felt fine up to that point - other than my runny nose and headache - and had no idea I was a diabetic in the least bit. I'm home now, and have been injecting myself with insulin ever since. So far, my blood sugars have remained in the low 80's to the mid 60's. I have yet to go over 300, and I have barely even touched the 200's. They have reduced my insulin intake twice already, and have started me on vitamin D as well as Zinc, mainly because when they did blood work, it showed that my immune system was very low. Unfortunately, none of the specialists hold any wish of me ever growing out of this disease, or simply curing it. They tell me it will be a constant part of the relax of my life, and that I will have to manage it. Against what they have said, there has to be a way. From what I know, my case is pretty special. Most people have either had symptoms, or have the disease running in the family, neither of which I have. I am only 15 years old, I am a juvenile, and at one point I was around 15 pounds overweight. I dropped that weight conditioning for winter track, - healthy diet, rigorous exercise - over about a 2 month period. Before that day 3 weeks ago, I was healthy, glad, and enjoying life. Now, I can hardly stand behind the three of those things. Against what many people say, diabetes does shape your life, even if you don't let it. You are forced to stick to a strict regimen, count your food constantly, prick your fingers without mercy, and inject yourself. This is not the life I want to live, in fact, no diabetic wants to live this way. So, now that you have a summary of my situation, is there the possibility that I don't have diabetes Type 1? Could it be something else? If so, what? Are there any known remedies that can jumpstart the pancreas or maybe help it along? (I am currently in the honeymoon phase.) Also, can your pituitary gland have anything to do with shutting your pancreas down, or perhaps restricting its growth compared to the relax of your body? What about hormones in general? Thank you so much for reading my question! =) And for you other diabetics, don’t give up wish! Also, my period has been out of whack as well. First, it started coming tardy, then it came whenever it pleased, now I haven't gotten it at every. This has to be hormones right? When I first got it 3 years back, it came on a regular schedule (like the 5th of every month.) That lasted up until about 4 months ago. Could this have anything to do with it?

20 Nov 2009, 8:26 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Honeymoon Destination Ideas - March / April (on the cheap side)?

Ok so this is going to be a long winded question so please bear with me. Want to give as much info as I can so I can receive the best possible answer. My brother is getting married next year and my parents have offered to pay for their honeymoon. They are allowed to chose wherever they want - Oz or Overseas as long as it is within reason. My future sister in law has asked for me to help try and convince my brother to go overseas as she has done a fair bit of travel around Australia with her parents but has never left our beautiful little island paradise. My brother wants to stay in Australia and unlike his future wife has been overseas once on a cruise to noumea and vanautu and has also seen a fair bit of Australia. She has asked if I will help her convince him to go overseas. Her theory is that because they have a 4 year old and are struggling financially an overseas trip is not something that they will be able to afford anytime soon whereas trips within Oz can be done on the extreme cheap if needed. I tend to agree. So here is the criteria for the destination that we are looking for Has resort style accommodation (preferably beach) Good Shopping but minus the pushy in your face store owners Nice and cheap alcohol Good Pub's and Fun Nightlife Good variety of restaurants that serve western style foods especially steaks.. One last piece of information to help. He is 27 and she is 23 Thanks

2 May 2011, 7:38 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Does there seem to be a media honeymoon still going on with Obama?

If you take out the extremes: FOX, talk radio etc. it seems that compared to previous presidents Obama really doesn't appear to be put below the gun when he should be in many cases it appears CNN, MSNBC, NY Times etc. almost go to bat for him. Even the political comics appear to be avoiding him.

2 Jun 2011, 3:17 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: can a mother and son have a romantic relationship?

. Is this a normal mom / son interaction? A mom who acts as if she's her son's wife and a son who acts like a boyfriend to his mom. He's 24, an engineer (so's not like he's completely dysfunctional) They live together and does everything together (days, nights, and weekends), the way a wife and husband interacts, but even more extreme..kinda like a newly wedded on their honeymoon. He's now taking up every the feminine interests his mom has and they do it together (sewing,knitting, oprah, yoga, baking, home/bedding decor, fairies/angel crafts)......his mom hates everyone who interfere with their relationship...and kinda persuaded him that he doesnt need to reproduce because the earth is too populated. , She talks about him as if he's her husband... Is there a way to help the boy?

18 Oct 2010, 4:01 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: The Biggest Wedding? What do I not know?

In the most extreme weddings, what "other" events are there except for the big day itself? I have seen so many different versions of these but nobody seems to do every of them. If you were to toss every of these "extra" events in, what are they and in what order would you have them? Examples of extra events I've seen: Bridal Shower Bachelorette party bachelor party spa day for girls golf outing for nearest families some sort of outing for groom & groomsmen for example paintball rehearsal dinner brunch the day before or after wedding engagement party cocktail party/dinner/lunch for nearest families sometime before wedding brunch or something after couple comes home from honeymoon "welcome ceremonies" for out-of-state relatives I´m pretty sure I´m forgetting something I've arrive across. But if you were to go every out, and have every the extras, what would your list look like? What events am I forgetting or don´t know about?

18 Aug 2009, 10:06 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Your thoughts on destination weddings?

Honestly, I don't think I want to do the whole year-long, thousands and thousands of dollars, tons of guests-type of wedding. I was in a pal's wedding last weekend. It was beautiful and I had a great time, but it was a major production. And...the couple dropped a fortune on the wedding :S Neither of us want an elloborate ceremony. We're both outdoorsy-type of people. I like the idea of something like heading to a cabin up North and getting married by the lake. Then have a honeymoon at a cabin in the woods. We'd just invite close friends and family. It would most likely just be family, and a few friends that would make the journey. If we wanted, we could always have a casual reception in our hometowns. I wouldn't do this (my mom would kill me!), but I like the idea of eloping. My grandparents ran off and got married in Reno. They were married something like 50 years so it worked alright for them! This destination wedding wouldn't be quite as extreme, but something we like better than the traditional white-gown wedding.

17 Nov 2010, 11:43 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: All my relationships are the same?

I'm 18 years old, and I've been dating since I was 14. Every relationship I'm in starts with amazing chemistry and excitement (No, not sexual, I've only been physical with 2 people.) and then after the "honeymoon phase", I start to feel taken for granted and pushed away. I do little things for my boyfriends like pick things up at the store that I know they need or receive little gifts that make me think of them or bring them lunch at work once in a while, but I don't think I go too overboard. Still, in every relationship, I end up feeling taken for granted of when none of the guys can return any of the kindness or make as much effort. I've never been very high maintnence, but I still like to feel like a guy cares about me when we're together, and I think every girl wants to feel like they mean the world to someone sometimes, and I always just end up feeling like a doormat. In the end, I break up with them because I feel used, and we try to stay friends, and they usually turn into assholes, and when I look back on the relationship I realize that they were assholes every along. My current boyfriend has been the best and I REALLY want it to work, but lately, he's been falling into the same pattern of every take no give (Again, not sexual) and I'm starting to feel hurt. I told him how I was feeling, and he's since made a bit more effort, but I feel like his feelings for me are starting to fade. He says he loves me, but every I want is a gesture or a talk or something to prove that I'm still as big a deal to him as I was when we first met (he was absolutely over the moon about me when we first started dating and used to go to extreme measures to look me and talk to me.) Am I being ridiculous? What am I doing wrong that attracts guys who don't respect me? And any tips about my current situation would be great. (Hopefully this every makes sense, I haven't re-read it..) @EGR, you've got how I feel right on the nose. It's not the actual price value of things or the fact that I want "stuff", it's that I go out with him in mind and naturally want to take care of him, sometimes going significantly out of my way to do something that I receive so little thanks for, and it feels like he doesn't care as much when he doesn't ever go even a little out of his way. Your answer is really comforting :) The only thing is I don't know how to do the shock tactic without totally jeopardizing everything.

17 Dec 2010, 7:18 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Where will be hot for our honeymoon, help please?

We are getting married at the end of February. I would really adore to go somewere that it actually feels hot not just warm (if this is at every possible). I have only been on a plain twice once to ireland and once to tenerife so I am not well travelled. I hoped to stay in europe will it every be icy? We would be flying from England or Scotland, if our only option is extremely expensive places I think we will just go the other extreme and go somewhere icy.

17 Aug 2010, 12:53 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Will our suitcase make it to Mexico with all the contents?

We are going to Cancun for our honeymoon with a significant amount of adult toys. (We both like this stuff to the extreme). Will any of it be not allowed in the country or thru security?

16 Sep 2010, 10:31 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: How can I get out of this rut?

My boyfriend and I have only been dating about five months. He was in adore with me for a whole year before I finally said yes... he's truly an amazing guy, it just took me awhile to look that and want to be in a relationship again (I was afraid of getting hurt). He adored me and always made it clear that he did. Now the honeymoon phase has been over for a couple months. The getting to know each other and finding out each others flaws has definitely happened...I feel bad because since he now knows that I'm not perfect like he once thought... things aren't the same. Of course the honeymoon phase never lasts, but I still feel bad that I'm not the "perfect angel" he had hoped for. I'm a regular lady who complains and whines and sometimes yes--gets bitchy. We were in the phase where you spend every waking moment together until we started to argue. I finally realized it was because we were simply spending too much time together; we both had stopped doing the things we loved and just would hang out doing nothing together until we drove each other mad with the tiny little things that bothered us about each other. We agreed to spend time apart reconnecting with friends and doing "our possess thing." We spent a week apart and now we aren't hanging out enough. He is forgetting to call me and has backed off majorly.. I know it's because we had been fighting lately alot and he just wants to keep the peace... I feel bad because first I told him that we were spending too much time together, and now I'm telling him we're not spending enough time together. He thinks he can't do anything right... and I feel horrible. But it's just that we went from one extreme to the other-seeing each other every day to only once a week. I would like to look him as often as possible, just not EVERY single day. I just want to find a glad medium. How can I receive out of this rut? I feel bad for my boyfriend. He didn't seem to mind spending every our time together, but he doesn't seem to mind spending it apart either. He does miss me, but he is not the planning type and now that we're not with each other 24/7 that leaves a lot of miscommunication for figuring out when we can look each other. (we live an hour away from each other, but my parents live by him and his friends live nice of by me). How can we resolve this? He doesn't want to break up, but I know he's almost lost wish for us... we had been fighting so often for awhile, and now this situation has arrive up so I know he feels like its just another argument... How can I receive him to have wish again in us and help us find our glad medium together? Thanks for the advice.

16 Jun 2010, 12:10 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: How do I get out of this rut?

16 Jun 2010, 12:10 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Temporary title change?

Cena is soposed t have his honeymoon soon so i was wondering if its a temporary title change like Batista after Extreme rules?

13 Sep 2009, 11:19 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Was a project damaged by this phenomenom ?

Deborah Hill Cone: Self-adore stuck in an endless honeymoon 4:00AM Sunday Oct 11, 2009 You heard it here first: narcissism is the new black. I predict narcissism is going to be our next obsession. Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) was invented in 1980 when shrinks included it in their Bible, the DSM-III, and it is poorly understood, diagnosed, reported or studied. But once you learn a bit about it you start seeing it everywhere - especially in the business community. Although I must confess the same thing happened to me with autism - I started to think half the people I knew were on the spectrum. Still do, although maybe I just know a lot of anoraks. Yes I know, I read too many self-help books - and that's how I got interested in narcissism. (Is there a self-help book about curing one's self-help book addiction?) The roll call of narcissists is pretty long. Practically every politicians and lots of CEOs. Pretty much anyone who owns a Bentley. They are not every psychopaths like Clayton Weatherston, but they are wonky nonetheless. Most narcissists don't recognise that they are narcissists. One of the few who does is Sam Vaknin, a PhD and financial consultant from Israel, but it took some pretty extreme conditions for him to be forced to face his personality. (And since there is no cure, that was pretty depressing.) Vaknin wrote a book about narcissism in jail as he tried to understand why his nine-year marriage had dissolved, his finances were in a shocking condition, his family estranged, his reputation ruined. He blamed everyone else, but slowly realised it was his fault. So what is narcissism? Contrary to the myth of the Greek boy who fell in adore with his possess reflection, the narcissist does not adore himself in any true sense of the word. Narcissism is a pattern of traits and behaviours which signify infatuation and obsession with one's self to the exclusion of every others and the egotistic and ruthless pursuit of one's gratification, dominance and ambition. Most narcissists are men. They feed off other people, getting what Vaknin calls "narcissistic supply" - this could involve sex, attention or glory - and it is like a drug. The DSM says narcissism is "a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, need for admiration, and a lack of empathy". The narcissist is described as turning inward for gratification rather than depending on others and as being excessively preoccupied with issues of personal adequacy, power, and prestige. There is no cure for it. Therapy doesn't really help. Psychologists say factors behind narcissism are an oversensitive temperament, overindulgence by parents, unreliable parenting and childhood abuse. "Narcissists feed off other people who hurl back at him an image that he projects to them. This is their sole function in his world: to reflect, to admire, to applaud, to detest - in a word to assure him he exists." But I'm not just saying this to give you a lesson in cod psychology. I can't help wondering if the disorder of narcissism has almost become normalised in our individualistic, status-obsessed society - and don't receive me started on overindulged kids. There is something wrong when the diagnosis of narcissism almost sounds like something most BCom students aspire to. Here's a wacky idea: let's put away the mirrors and start looking at other people instead of ourselves. deborah@coneandco.com http://www.nzherald.co.nz/business/news/article.cfm?c_id=3&objectid=10602200

13 Nov 2009, 10:58 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: I desperately need a doctor/nurse's advice on painful intercourse with no infection!?

I got married a year ago (and I had never had sex before) and since then I've had problems off and on. The first started a month after marriage, I had a white discharge and extremely painful sex. My doctor said it was "honeymoon cystitis" and prescribed an antibiotic for a week. It didn't go away. About 2 weeks later it finally began to go away. We were able to have sex for about 2 weeks and it came back. This time just pain. I went to a new doctor that prescribed a pain medicine (which of course was pointless), and the pain continued. Finally about 3 weeks later I got into my old doctor and he tested me for Clamydia and Ghonorrea. Both were negative so he prescribed methanidozale and said I had a bacterial infection. The medicine didn't work. About 3 weeks after I had finished the medicine the pain began to go away. We were able to have sex for about another month and a half before the pain came back. This time it came back with the white discharge and extreme pain during intercourse. I bought an over the counter monistat treatment and it made the discharge go away but not the pain. And here I am I'm at a loss. Over every I've been to three different clinics and 5 different doctors visits and no success. I don't understand why no one can fix this! I need help! Please! My symptoms are only pain during intercourse and sometimes a white discharge. No pain during urination, no pain other than intercourse. PLEASE HELP!!

12 Sep 2009, 9:08 pm | click here to view more

Voting Question: Was it too early to test?! Maybe a little hope.....please?

I am due AF today/ tomorrow, apart from sore breasts I don't feel like I normally do. I have tried this month not to really think about pregnancy that much, but what can I say.... it beat me! I said to myself on going to snooze last night that if AF doesn't arrive during night or first thing in the morning, I would test. I just tested- at 12 DPO and BFN :( I took my temps yesterday and today to look if they have gone down a little (as indication of AF on her way) and its still at 98.5/ 98.6..... Only symptoms I can think of really besides the tender boobs, are really itchy feet and hands!!!!! (this was my sisters 1st preg symptom- but think I am just making the connection), extreme tiredness (just having to nap when I return from work), and feeling really queazy over chinese prawn curry last night (which i adore) Trying not to receive too down about it as Hubby & I are off on honeymoon next week so at least if I am not pregnant, I can take full advantage of the every inclusive. BUT..... can't help not getting a little unhappy that its BFN. Could it have been too soon? Anyone thinking positive thoughts? Grateful for you answers. Thanks in advance & Baby Dust to every of us......

12 Sep 2009, 4:27 am | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Was it too early to test?! Maybe a little hope.....?

12 Sep 2009, 4:26 am | click here to view more

Voting Question: Is she pregnant or just sick?

Hello. My wife and I are in our honeymoon in Hawaii. We both got bitten many times by mosquitos. I'm fine, but my wife has nausea, stomach ache, and extreme fatigue. She had taken a couple of birth control pills rather tardy (not back to back) about 2 weeks ago and we wondered if she is pregnant, but she has stomach pains which don't quite fit the bill. Now I'm wondering if it's due to the mosguito bites. Can anyone please help with a diagnosis? Her period is a week away and if she is pregnant, we think she's only into a week or two into it. I know it's uncommon, but her mom had symptoms almost immediately.

11 Oct 2009, 7:38 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: Medical question. Someone please help!?

Hello. My wife and I are in our honeymoon in Hawaii. We both got bitten many times by mosquitos. I'm fine, but my wife has nausea, stomach ache, and extreme fatigue. She had taken a couple of birth control pills rather tardy (not back to back) about 2 weeks ago and we wondered if she is pregnant, but she has stomach pains which don't quite fit the bill. Now I'm wondering if it's due to the mosguito bites. Can anyone please help with a diagnosis? Her period is a week away and if she is pregnant, we think she's only into a week or two into it, so even a doctor cannot diagnose this soon. I wanted to receive the opinions of others who's been there and done that... I know it's uncommon, but her mom had symptoms almost immediately. 2 seconds ago

11 Oct 2009, 7:32 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: HOW ARE THESE JOKES FUNNY OR NOT????????

HOW ARE THESE JOKES silly OR NOT? Black Magic An old man and lady were married for years even though they hated each other. When they had a battle, screams and yelling could be heard deep into the night. A constant statement was heard by the neighbors who feared the man the most... "When I die I will dig my way up and out of the grave to arrive back and haunt you for the relax of your life!" They believed he practiced black magic and was responsible for missing cats and dogs, and odd sounds at every hours. He was feared and enjoyed the respect it garnished. He died abruptly below odd circumstances and the funeral had a closed casket. After the burial, the wife went straight to the local bar and began to party as if there was no tomorrow. The gaiety of her actions were becoming extreme while her neighbors approached in a group to ask these questions: Are you not afraid? Concerned? Worried? that this man who practiced black magic and stated when he died he would dig his way up and out of the grave to arrive back and haunt you for the relax of your life? The wife put down her drink and said. . . "Nah... let the old man dig. I had him buried upside down!" If you adore something If you adore something, set it free. If it comes back, it was and always will be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to start with. If, however, it just sits in your living room, messes up your stuff, eats your food, uses your telephone, takes your money, and never appears to have noticed that you actually set it free in the first place, You either married it or gave birth to it! The honeymoon is over A young couple got married and left on their honeymoon. When they got back, the bride immediately called her mom. "Well, how was the honeymoon?" asked the mom. "Oh mamma!" she exclaimed. "The honeymoon was wonderful! So romantic!" No sooner had she spoken the words than she burst out crying. "But mamma . . . as soon as we returned, Sam started using the most horrible language. He's been saying things I've never heard before! every these awful 4-letter words! You've got to arrive receive me and take me home... please mamma!" "Now Sarah . . ." her mom answered. "Calm down! Tell me, what could be so awful? What 4-letter words has he been using?" "Please don't make me tell you, mamma." wept the daughter. "I'm so embarrassed! They're just too awful! You've got to arrive receive me and take me home... please mamma!" "Darling, baby, you must tell me what has you so upset . . . Tell your mom these horrible 4-letter words!" Still sobbing, the bride replied, "Oh, mamma . . . words like dust, wash, iron, and cook 5 hours ago - 4 days left to answer

10 Sep 2009, 1:25 pm | click here to view more

Resolved Question: When on a honeymoon in the tropics, do you and your spouse ever dream about staying down there forever?

Lets say you and your newly wedded spouse spend a honeymoon in a tropical paradise for a week. And you both talk about what it would be like staying in the tropics forever. Live in a grass cabana, living off of tropical fruit and fish enjoying the sunshine and the romantic nights. Does that ever happen to you? What makes you go back to the hustle & bustle or back to the extreme icy and headaches? I got this idea from Young & the Restless. Adam & Sharon are in the tropics on their honeymoon and are talking about this. One of the few conflict-less scenes on a soap.

10 Feb 2010, 4:46 pm | click here to view more

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